👄 We know that a narcissist will go to any lengths to win in court. When it comes to a custody battle with a narcissistic partner, they will go to extreme lengths to prove the mental instability of their ex partner. Fighting to win a custody battle may not be because they love their children but to hurt their partner one more time. In such cases lies are common place but it has been brought to my attention that the unlawful administration of drugs may be a practice used by these disordered individuals. Is this something any of you have come across? I received the following message from someone on the page.
‘My narcissistic former partner has been paying people to spike me with substances that cause insomnia which leads to me have to admit myself in a psych ward to get some sleep which consequentially means the Family Court won’t allow me to see my kids. I gave met many other women in psych wards that are victims of spiking abuse also but no one will believe us & they assume we are imagining it & are crazy which is our abusers intent. I’ve been trying to find out about this phenomena online & found nothing so I’m curious to know how widespread this form of abuse is & if there is any literature available on this form of abuse.’
👄 What advice would you give to someone who is dating your ex?
👄 Do you think narcissism is on the increase in today’s society?
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What’s the best decision you’ve ever made regarding the narcissist in your life?
👄I was chatting with someone the other day and they asked me if my ex partner was on his deathbed and wanted to see me, would I go? Well now, let me see…Meeting with him again would be just about as appealing as an encounter with a rattlesnake.
Do I think he would have reflected on his life and would try to make his peace? No.
Do I think he will have seen the error of his ways? No.
Would there be any sort of apology? No.
Would he show any remorse? No
Would he have changed and mended his ways? No.
I think I would just let him pop off to wherever he’s going without a final visit. I have had my final chat with him and that was a long time ago.
What would you do? Would you go and see them that one last time?
👄The silent treatment and ostracism have been described as ‘mental murder’ and are absolutely devastating to the target. Sadly they are tactics often used by narcissists. Have you been a target and how did you deal with it?
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👄 Did the narcissist in your life fail to return your possessions when the relationship ended? My ex partner held on to a substantial amount of my clothes, shoes etc. Is it theft? It certainly is when they have no intention of returning them. Narcissists are renowned for keeping your belongings. Perhaps they do this so that you will beg for their return. It is a sign of power and control. Did you just let it go?
👄 We know that narcissists are pathological liars. What was the worst lie they ever told you? Before I went out with my ex-partner he told me, “I’m not a bad man, Anne.” I’m not sure if he was trying to convince himself or me but boy, was that a whopper!!
👄 Do you think the narcissist knows they are a narcissist? I have no doubt that they know what they are doing is wrong but simply don’t care. What do you think?
👄 A child of a narcissist parent may grow up with feelings of low self esteem, feelings of never being good enough. How did your narcissistic parent affect how you feel about yourself?