👄 We know that narcissists are pathological liars. What was the worst lie they ever told you? Before I went out with my ex-partner he told me, “I’m not a bad man, Anne.” I’m not sure if he was trying to convince himself or me but boy, was that a whopper!!
👄 Do you think the narcissist knows they are a narcissist? I have no doubt that they know what they are doing is wrong but simply don’t care. What do you think?
👄 A child of a narcissist parent may grow up with feelings of low self esteem, feelings of never being good enough. How did your narcissistic parent affect how you feel about yourself?
Some will say that they hate their abuser and will never forgive them. Others will say that forgiveness does more for the forgiver than the forgiven. Do you believe it is necessary to forgive in order to move on and put the past where it belongs?
👄 Have you had to deal with people telling you that it is all in your head and that the abuser is really a good and decent person ?
Have you any advice for those who are having difficulty with recovery and moving through the devastation caused by a narcissist?
If the narcissist in your life said they had been to therapy and changed, would you believe them?
Did the narcissist in your life turn it all around and shift the blame?
Some people are haunted by their memories. What helped you control your thoughts?
Go back 10 or 20 years. What advice would you give to your younger self?