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What should I do?

What should I do?

Can I get some advice on what to do? My son’s father has always been a narcissist, now that my son is older he’s being treated the same way. He gets so anxious before he leaves and he comes home so angry. I finally stepped up for my son but his father refused to see the damage. He wants to take him this weekend and my son does not want to go. He’s doing better in school, he’s happier than…

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I cannot bear to be around when he is present

I cannot bear to be around when he is present

I would like some advice from people whose daughters are in a narcissist relationship on how to handle it. We are very close but I cannot bear to be around when he is present, I don’t want it like this. It hurts me… My daughter is 25 and they’ve been together on/off for 2 years. They have two children, 2 months and 6 years old.

I really need help

I really need help

I really need help…. I was currently dating an emotional abusive partner for 4 years 1..he isolated me from my friends and family 2..whenever he is wrong he blames me for everything 3..he lies about me 4..he cheated on me 5..he doesn’t apologize or show any regret when he has wronged me… This past Friday he decided to go out with friends and he came back yesterday 7pm. I didn’t manage to take all this and decided to leave him…

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I’m struggling with my feelings

I’m struggling with my feelings

My narcissistic mother has just suddenly passed away. I’m struggling with my feelings and not entirely sure how to grieve. I’m obviously upset but how do I deal with such conflicting emotions when I’m also feeling relief, anger at the ‘ no closure’ over the 25 plus years of abuse but still mourning the loss of a mother I still loved regardless. Thanks

He keeps messing with me

He keeps messing with me

He just some how keeps messing with me. He’s had me blocked on Facebook since early November and I was notified today by a friend of a couple of songs that he shared on Facebook. The songs would indicate that he’s missing me. After a couple of hours thinking about it I decided to see if he unblocked me. And sure enough, he did. He wants me to see them. I instantly got a nauseous, shaking, and heart racing to…

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My narcissistic spouse is ill

My narcissistic spouse is ill

How would you handle a narcissist spouse who is physically ill with heart and stroke issues during the past several years. And learning there’s also a new supply, and has been for years…

What can I do?

What can I do?

I’m starting to realise my step mother is a narc! My dad is a pleaser… and since being with her she has segregated him from his WHOLE family including his children… she took his mobile off him so now there’s only one way to get in contact and she has full control of the phone… he had to delete his FB page.. he has nothing left that is just for him. It’s so sad to see. In the last 10…

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She’s driving me crazy

She’s driving me crazy

I am currently dealing with a narcissistic person who is my sister-in-law and ex friend. Her taunts, lies, and the ton of stuff she did to embarrass me is driving me crazy. I am getting frustrated and fed up with her and her nonsense. Can you all give me some advice on how to deal with this person?

My ex husband continues to violate boundaries

My ex husband continues to violate boundaries

My narc ex husband is dating a now EX friend of mine. That is betrayal enough (by the friend) but now she’s pushing in on my kids’ lives. Ever since my ex and I split, he has continued to violate boundaries. He has shown up at my family functions at the holidays, and my family unfortunately won’t turn him away. Other than my mom and sister, they either “don’t want to get involved” or think I should just “rise above…

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My daughter at her young age realises the toxic dad she has

My daughter at her young age realises the toxic dad she has

My almost 16 year old daughter is refusing to return to her dad’s house due to his emotional and narcissistic abuse. She has been in counselling for 4 years and cannot take anymore abuse. My daughter at her young age realises the toxic dad she has and I am proud of her for standing up for herself. She has used the tools and techniques her counsellors have given her, yet when she wants no contact from him, the court punishes…

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