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I have sustained moderate to severe emotional abuse

I have sustained moderate to severe emotional abuse

For those in the court system trying to protect your children. What communication techniques worked for you selling in/ gifting resolutions? I have a psychiatric evaluation report showing he has narcissistic behaviours, that I have sustained moderate to severe emotional abuse and this is domestic violence. It also shows he’s been playing psychological warfare and committing perjury in the court process.

I’ve been used and abused most of my life

I’ve been used and abused most of my life

I’m in my 30s and was raised by a narcissist. If we didn’t give in to or do what she wanted such as give her our attention, admiration, acts of service or if she couldn’t use us and benefit from our success she would turn on us by trying to fight. She would cause arguments and make us seem like villains. I’ve experienced her using her emotions/her position as a bio parent to manipulate us. She makes it hard for…

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CO-PARENTING WITH A NARCISSIST

CO-PARENTING WITH A NARCISSIST

Divorcing or separating from someone who you once thought you would spend your life with is never easy. We give up on our dreams, the happy ever after kind of dreams. If there are children involved, two normal healthy adults will seek to co-operate and co-parent and give their children a happy, loving childhood free from disharmony and bitter squabbles between their parents. I’m not sure that there is such a term as co-parenting when it comes to a split…

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I feel like this is psycho behaviour and is unacceptable

I feel like this is psycho behaviour and is unacceptable

My boyfriend of almost 8 months has had a rough past few relationships that have ended with the female cheating. So I understand this is a sensitive area for him. I don’t go out with friends, I don’t drink, I am not flirty, I don’t dress provocative, etc. I do have two exes on fb (he does too) who were short term and we both realized we were better friends and romantic partners. Even still, I NEVER do more than…

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What should I do?

What should I do?

Can I get some advice on what to do? My son’s father has always been a narcissist, now that my son is older he’s being treated the same way. He gets so anxious before he leaves and he comes home so angry. I finally stepped up for my son but his father refused to see the damage. He wants to take him this weekend and my son does not want to go. He’s doing better in school, he’s happier than…

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I cannot bear to be around when he is present

I cannot bear to be around when he is present

I would like some advice from people whose daughters are in a narcissist relationship on how to handle it. We are very close but I cannot bear to be around when he is present, I don’t want it like this. It hurts me… My daughter is 25 and they’ve been together on/off for 2 years. They have two children, 2 months and 6 years old.

I really need help

I really need help

I really need help…. I was currently dating an emotional abusive partner for 4 years 1..he isolated me from my friends and family 2..whenever he is wrong he blames me for everything 3..he lies about me 4..he cheated on me 5..he doesn’t apologize or show any regret when he has wronged me… This past Friday he decided to go out with friends and he came back yesterday 7pm. I didn’t manage to take all this and decided to leave him…

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Reactive Abuse

Reactive Abuse

Even good people have their limits.  Narcissists overstep boundaries time and time again.  They will push and push until you respond and then they’ll blame you for over-reacting or for being abusive.  The real abuser now has all the evidence they need.  Unfortunately, their constant needling, provocative words or acts that have led to a reaction from you, are often not seen or heard by anyone else but your response is often witnessed by every Tom, Dick and Harry. The…

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I’m struggling with my feelings

I’m struggling with my feelings

My narcissistic mother has just suddenly passed away. I’m struggling with my feelings and not entirely sure how to grieve. I’m obviously upset but how do I deal with such conflicting emotions when I’m also feeling relief, anger at the ‘ no closure’ over the 25 plus years of abuse but still mourning the loss of a mother I still loved regardless. Thanks

He keeps messing with me

He keeps messing with me

He just some how keeps messing with me. He’s had me blocked on Facebook since early November and I was notified today by a friend of a couple of songs that he shared on Facebook. The songs would indicate that he’s missing me. After a couple of hours thinking about it I decided to see if he unblocked me. And sure enough, he did. He wants me to see them. I instantly got a nauseous, shaking, and heart racing to…

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