Our situation has become worse! My nieces’ narc mother has decided to sell and move from Sydney to Queensland. The girls do not want to move. They don’t want to leave us as we are their support network. One is starting year 11 and one in year 9, important years of their lives. We are trying to stay positive for them. Their mother has told them if they don’t move she will kill herself. She has not considered them at all. The 16 year old knows she is old enough to decide where she wants to live but the mother has told the younger one, 14 that she has no choice she has to move with her the older one will go with the young sibling to stick together. The kids are suffering anxiety and depression their mother goes from rages then nice within minutes to make sure she is in full control. The kids would be better off staying with us and finishing school however the mother will disown them or as she said kill herself if they don’t go. Sad.