My ex tries to use God against me

My ex tries to use God against me

How can one show an abusive ex spouse, his flying monkey crew is on social media stalking & taunting you? (sending messages to the Pastors/life coach portraying him as the victim and me having a non expired Protection Order against him, despite his name is blocked.)

My ex always tried using God against me and his family tried telling me if and when & If I ever left him that God’s gonna get me/I’m in Gods hands meaning gloom in doom
I’m the devil yea ok !

Now since I’ve obtained a Permanent protection order/Non Expire!!! he’s scared I’m gonna collect CS & seeing negative patterns repeated Smear campaigns, indirectly making my name look bad, him breaking the PPO by 3rd party subliminal messages.

I know it’s him, hating fan club because when I try to leave a few times in the past he always calls my former pastor, telling the pastor to make me reconcile, go back to him, he always begged others via social media for prayers, using his emotions to manipulate others playing a good victim.

5 thoughts on “My ex tries to use God against me

  1. I’ve devoted 20 years of my life advocating for victims of narcissistic abuse. Particularly those in the church. I was married to a pastor diagnosed with NPD. I was told God would do a miracle. God hates divorce. I should submit more. We saw 14 Christian counselors who had zero knowledge of NPD. He was able to manipulate most of them because of his position and those he couldn’t he deemed unacceptable. He was worshipped in his church and in most Christian communities narcissists who are altruistic can easily charm and use scripture and knowledge to gather flying monkeys. If you finally leave be prepared to find out who your friends are. You may lose a whole community or church but that is okay. I will promise you that God has something much better waiting for you that doesn’t include abuse and control. Go no contact with the narcissist and anyone connected to him. You may have to find a new church. How exciting! Stop defending your integrity because that is the hook. God is setting you free. Let Him. Many Christian women have walked this path and are free now and happy. You can be too.

  2. I used to be a pastor’s wife. My ex is an abusive, cheating, con-artist narcissist (former pastor). He and the new supply are playing at being godly, even using God, church, and praying for me as ways to draw in flying monkeys and to gin up business.
    I understand how hard it is to fight when people are saying God will get you for divorcing or not forgiving.
    The fact is, a good God would deal with your narcissist and protect you. I don’t know what God the flying monkeys are worshipping, but it is not a good one.
    Don’t fear. Keep using legal means to protect yourself and provide for your kids.

  3. My ex did this to me. Thankfully I had been talking to my Pastor about the failing marriage (and the reasons). When ex asked him to “tell me divorce is wrong”, Pastor asked him if he considered he may need help with his drinking. That was the end of that. He realized Pastor saw through him.

    If you have a relationship with your Pastor, give him a copy of your protection order and tell him your fears. If your Pastor does not seem to realize your need for protection, then seek a new church. Cut ties & go completely no with anyone that supports your ex. Block him and his flying monkeys. Make your Facebook page private. YOU know who you are and what the truth is. What anyone else thinks about the situation is irrelevant. You have to get to the point where you don’t care what others “think”. The truth always comes out…

  4. Believe in your Higher Power and as long as you and your God know that what you’ve done is the right thing then no one else’s opinion matters. I stopped caring who he told or who believed him. I only cared that I was free.

  5. I don’t know what kind of god he/they are referring to, But the G-d I know does not go about “getting” people to reap revenge or Justice. The G-d I know seems to allow people to do that for themselves “G-d is not mocked, you do reap what you sow”. Galatians 6:7 To those men, And “my” Nex is one of them, who want to proclaim “G-d hates divorce”, need also proclaim the rest of that sentence! No one can claim to be a “Christian” by upholding standards out side of G-d’s, No one can “be protected” from their unrepentant behavior by the “Christian Banner” while creating a different model of marriage than was set down by G-d Himself!. Please Read James 8:5-8, 5 Now if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask G-d, who gives to all generously and without reproach; and it will be given to him. 6 But let him ask in trust, doubting nothing; for the doubter is like a wave in the sea being tossed and driven by the wind. 7 Indeed that person should not think that he will receive anything from the L-rd, 8 because he is double-minded, unstable in all his ways. Also Malachi 2:13 Here is something else you do: you cover אֲדֹנָי (L-rd G-d)altar with tears, with weeping and with sighing, because He no longer looks at the offering or receives your gift with favor. 14 Nevertheless, you ask, “Why is this?” Because אֲדֹנָי is witness between you and the wife of your youth that you have broken faith with her, though she is your companion, your wife by COVENANT. 15 And hasn’t He made [them] one [flesh] in order to have spiritually blessed children? For what the one [flesh] seeks is a seed (children) from אֲדֹנָי. Therefore, take heed to your spirit, (behavior, attitude) and don’t break faith with the wife of your youth.16 “For I hate divorce,” says אֲדֹנָי the G-d of Isra’el, “AND (hate) him who covers his kupah (Marriage covering, translated as “clothing”) with violence,” says אֲדֹנָי-Tzva’ot. (L-rd G-d of hosts) Therefore take heed to your spirit, (Literally “breath” but can mean behavior, attitude) and don’t break faith. CEB The word “violence” includes emotional, Spiritual, psychological, mental, financial..whatever. There is NO comparison to what you suggest! John 13:34 “I am giving you a new command: that you keep on loving each other. In the same way that I have loved you, you are also to keep on loving each other.”

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