I need to get a divorce because of emotional abuse. I don’t have much income as I don’t have a job. My husband threatens me with withholding money etc. Doesn’t do much with the kids. I don’t even know where to start except that I need a lawyer. What do I do if he doesn’t agree to the divorce? I have 2 small kids. I want to also move to a southern state. I am at a complete loss on what to do. I have no one to talk to about this.