Am I Ever Going To Be Free?

Am I Ever Going To Be Free?

Hey just after advice.  I live in Australia and my daughter’s father is an utter text book narcissist.  I left him 2 years ago when our daughter was only a few months old but he still has massive control over me using our daughter as leverage. He makes me feel like a rubbish mother and has done things that make me concerned at the thought of ever having a relationship with anyone ever again.  Am I ever going to be free of his abuse?  What steps can I take to ease his abuse?

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  1. You cannot control his abusiveness towards you. You are his target – it’s a head game he’s playing with you. Educate yourself in every way you can on narcissism. It’s a journey, it takes time for your eyes to fully open. My guess is that you’re an empathic person, and he scared you to the depth of your soul. Have as little contact as humanly possible – even sharing a child, you can find ways to implement this. Focus on your own soul. Be kind to yourself. He cannot MAKE you FEEL anything. You are still hooked in and ALLOWING his projections to enter your concept of yourself. Do some research on building boundaries – because that’s what this guy violates, your personal boundaries.
    Best of luck – do some research on codependence. Melody Beattie is a wonderful author on the subject. Most of us involved with these soul-less creatures are codependent by nature. Therein lies our work and growth.
    Be kind to YOURSELF!

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