My sibling has finally agreed to go to family therapy. I’m pretty freaked out. She has avoided all ownership of their actions, gaslighted me, projected her behaviour onto me, undermined me, stonewalled me (for over a year), everything from the toxic person’s rule book. Her and my parents desperately want her to be at my wedding and they have been testing boundaries much. My boundaries are – talk things through with a therapist or keep minimal contact, being polite at family events. Now, in a 180 degree turn around, she claims she wants therapy. There is only evidence of her avoiding accountability. She never apologises for anything. Argh. I feel sick inside.