The children are bearing the brunt of her insane actions

The children are bearing the brunt of her insane actions

I stumbled across this Facebook page today and had a sigh of a little bit of relief.  Relief after reading many of the posts and seeing my husband and I aren’t alone, and truly not the bad people we’ve been made out to be.  This article describes my husband’s ex wife perfectly.  I have a story I could match perfectly to each and every example given.  The really sad thing is, they have two children together getting the brunt of her insane actions.  There is nothing more painful than seeing my husband constantly crying and sad because he can’t be the father he dreamed of being when they were born…because she makes it impossible.  He is far from a ‘dead beat dad’.  He pays his child support, the medical bills, and more.  We do live several hours drive away from the town she’s chosen to live, where her family lives.  We often would drive over to attend little league games or swim meets, but she’d cause such an embarrassing scene…we’ve stopped doing so.  I’m desperate on what to do.  My husband is desperate and often gives up hope.  My question is this…. is there a book, a website, online professional help anyone could point us to??  Another downfall we face often is, her parents are VERY VERY wealthy.  They always have the best and most expensive lawyers each millionth time she takes my husband to court for literally silly things.  We both have nice, well paying jobs, are well known and popular in our small community…. and she hates it.  All my husband wants to do is be a father to his children.  His narcissistic ex wife has made our lives a living hell.  Oh, the reason they divorced, she cheated on him, and continued to cheat when he tried everything to save his marriage.  But yet, the children have told us, it’s his fault.  Thank you and appreciate any help you could give.

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