Sad people have blocked me too

Sad people have blocked me too

When I split with my partner, I noticed I was blocked on Facebook by many of her cronies. Can’t say it bothered me.  Saved me blocking them.  One thing I noticed though is that people who are friends with the ex who I never met have blocked me too.  Is that sad or what?  Have they no balls that they have to block someone they don’t know just to please a narc?  Sad sad people!!

3 thoughts on “Sad people have blocked me too

  1. I found the opposite. The volume rose up and mostly female. After time i saw the truth that it was his creating a link to abuse. They stole pictures of my kids and handed off like offerings. Verbally attacked me for his accusations and projections. They masqueraded as alies that had personal motives and manipulated facts and manifactured events. Childrens services were called for a steady 11 years by one ‘side chick’ to win his admoration.

    I feel like i live in his set for the stage hes created behind the scenes. After 13 years i have had to become the master of games and i have adopted his sklls to use in a war i se no end too. The abused became the abuser and im fundamentally dofferent.

  2. As you said, it saved you from blocking them. My ex-narc thrives on FB with nearly 3000 FB friends. FB is her wirld. A narcs best friemd. I knew there was no way I could stop the smear campaign when I left her. So I didn’t try. Nor did I worry about what a couple thousand people I didn’t know thought. Why should I? I’ll even deactivate my acc I until for a week or 2 at a time. I have the maturity to relized I can live without it as I did beforev I used it. You might try it. It may feel empowering to you. I plan to go through my friends list and unfriend anyone I haven’t spoken to face to face in the last year. Nothing personal, I just don’t need to know what’s going on in their life or their views on things.

  3. Be thankful they blocked you and make sure no one who can pass on infomation about your life to your ex is left. Make sure your page is secure change passwords hide contact details and location. FB is just a social.media site… real life is so much more important, try to avoid being online and get out and about and enjoy yourself, join a group, make real friends.

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