I am in my 60s with an older brother and two younger sisters. After my parents died, I have finally been able to admit that my brother is narcissistic. It’s a hard label to come up with for a long time. He takes NO responsibility for his behaviour at all…everything – blames me…it’s a long story. He has alienated my family and church friends. He attacks everything about my life. We live in a small town. I am so worn out… I can’t get away from it…but has helped since I have stayed out of his path and embrace all the great friends who do love me.