My best friend has been having a relationship with a narcissist on and off for 6 years. He was married, frequently left his wife for my friend, but always went back for one reason or another. He’s controlling, emotionally abusive to her (and hates me obviously). He’s said and done some terrible things to her over the years but she gives it a few months and then starts it all up again.
I can’t understand it and this time when he throws her away again I really fear for her mental health. She had done so well with zero contact etc. and I am at a loss as to how to make her see sense.
I’m actually worried that she’ll be left alone because I can’t watch her suffer him any more. We’ve been friends for 30 years. Many thanks