Not sure we can ask here, but I feel like I’m going mad. I think I’m falling for yet another Narc. I need some wisdom from the audience and insight and maybe someone to tell me that maybe I’m overreacting because of my past experiences. So, this new bloke:
- messages me everyday and calls me frequently
- tells me how beautiful I am and how much he wants me
- at the same time he’s never available to see me – I haven’t seen him for two months now – says he is not seeing anyone, just busy
- didn’t show up twice without explanation, only after said ‘oh sorry’
- completely ignores my attempts to communicate that this behaviour is confusing and making me unwell.
I attempted suicide during my previous relationship with a Narc. I’m worried that either I’m paranoid and too sensitive or this is just not headed in the right direction.