I don’t want to let her win

I don’t want to let her win

Hi,  please please post this for me anonymously?  I’m in desperate need of tips as the event is coming soon. Thank you so much –

I’ve been NC away from my evil NMIL for over a year.  A big party is coming up, one that we CAN’T turn down, due to my kids participating in the grand event.  I’ll be seeing her and her enablers (husband and aunt) for the first time in a very long time.  How do I react to seeing these soul-suckers without affecting the celebrant’s event and without me going crazy?  I was thinking of being fake to her, hugging her and whispering in her ear that she’s an evil ****, then walk away like nothing happened lol.  What I don’t want to do is let her win by acting pissed off to them because that’s what they would want.

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  1. Take the high road.
    Shake her hand, her husband’s hand, her aunt’s hand. As you do so, simply state their name, with a smile on your face. I.E., “evil ****”, while hand shaking. Nothing more is required.
    You’ve been seen being “nice” in public. Then focus on YOURSELF and the other people around you.
    Don’t give your power away!

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