So I have a violent ex that is the complete definition of a narcissist and he blames me for everything. He calls me all sorts of nasty names and all I’m trying to do is take care of our son. I live by myself with my son and it’s hard paying bills with no child support. He accuses me of spending his son’s money on my bills. He thinks I should buy toys and games for him and clothes but thinks I shouldn’t pay my water or light bill with what little money he does give me when he feels like giving it. Please help… How do I deal with it all emotionally?