Are they living the dream?

Are they living the dream?

So my husband -18 years and I have two kids. Been together since teens. He always been controlling and his way or no way. We have always fought, when he gets mad shuts down sometimes doesn’t talk for weeks/months. Early in the relationship unsure if cheating. But as cell phones became more advanced I caught him. 2010 he was having an affair with this girl from school. I caught him several times once even at a hotel and he had an excuse always. No sorry nothing. It wasn’t what it seemed is what I was told. We finally moved to another town and I suspected cheating. I finally caught him and he literally blew up packed his shit and moved in with the 21 year he was Messing with (he’s 38 at this time) . She was married at the time and also had two kids. She walked out on them as well and r left me and my kids. Still says they don’t sleep together they are roommates. Blah blah blah

Presently we are still married we don’t live in the same town and this has been three years now .yes I know the deal and not sure why I’ve been blind. He still plays games saying they are not in a relationship etc. I believe he is a narcissistic bipolar. Anyhow she cheated on him recently with a girl she worked with for almost a year now. She moved out of her house that he still stayed in (even though he’s not on the lease) and now has moved back I’m with him. My questions are, are they really happy. Is isn’t real love. Did he really forgive her? Are they living the dream? I thought this would be his karma but no.

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  1. I’ve had the same thoughts obsessing about the narc and his new supply. Trying not to check, trying to let go of obessing. Take care love. It’s not easy, but we can all get through this and become stronger.

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