What makes the narcissist return?

What makes the narcissist return?

What makes a narcissist return? My narc ex-husband damaged my life immeasurably. I’m slowly putting the pieces back together in my life and in my soul, but a few friends have suggested that narc ex-husband will eventually resurface in my life. This frightens me! I took great care to make sure the narc doesn’t know where I live (I’m now an hour from him) but he does know where a relative of mine lives. On Saturday that very relative said he expects that the narc will pull into the driveway someday and my relative plans to call 911 on the narc for trespassing. What makes the narc return after thoroughly destroying a person’s life?!

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  1. Empower yourself with knowledge so that you know how best to respond *if* he shows up. Don’t spend time worrying about what might happen. Live your life. Love your life. There are books, websites, videos, counselors, exercises, meditations and more that can help you.
    I still have to see my ex because of our mutual grandchildren, their births and birthdays. The ex is on his best behavior for the most part, especially with others to see and hear him.
    I now understand his behaviors and why he behaves the way he does. It isn’t as traumatic as I initially thought it would be for me. Life can go forward in a positive manner. I was married for 36 years. I have been on my own for over 5 years now and I am on a healing path. I love life again!

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