My head says leave

My head says leave

Please help me!  I think my husband is a narc but how can I be sure?  I’m not truly happy.  My head says leave, my heart says stay.  For better or worse.

3 thoughts on “My head says leave

  1. What is your life like. Does his behavior changes you or is it making you more beautful. Change what you can, .But don’t lose your self. The last 5 year I came across five exs 3 were narcissistic , little requests, shave,clean your car, send an email yeah the thought it wasn’t important, nope it was. Lack of friends another system.
    Make a pro con list. Yes doubt.

  2. Read all you can and it will help you to see clearly.

    The loyalty to the vow of “for better or worse” has kept a lot people in abusive situations for many years, by that I mean that they remain loyal to the institution of marriage and think they have to stay when they are being abused and the worse starts to happen or they are breaking their vow if they leave.

    The WORSE in the vow is life’s challenges, difficulties, illness, monetary problems etc. NOT one person treating another like rubbish or being unfaithful and them choosing to break the vows of faithfulness that they made.

    Reasonable healthy normal people would not expect someone to stay in an abusive situation and it is not what the loving God would ask of anyone either. I hope you find happiness.

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