I have been in an 8 year relationship with a narcissist

I have been in an 8 year relationship with a narcissist

I have been in an 8 year relationship with someone who is an introvert/covert narcissist.  I was hoping that someone could shed some light on that.  As well as maybe some advice on how to proceed with him after I get the courage to tell him no contact means no contact, I’m dead to him etc.  I am terrified of the repercussions on when I do that which is why I have not done it yet.  He is no longer living with me however there are children involved my step kids actually. Only one of them is a minor and the one I am terrified to lose.  So any advice or words of wisdom or just to even know I’m not alone in this would be great right now as I try to process all of this…thank you so much in advance.

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  1. I too am in a relationship with a covert narcissist…for 8 years. I know in the early days when he disappeared he would be engaged in other relationships (aka cheating on me) and he would make his disappearing act out to be my fault (pick a stupid fight so he could leave) after year three he found another woman and dumped me in the cruelest possible way. it is part of the abuse cycle: Love bombing, devaluation/gaslighting and finally discardment. Leave him before he leaves you or you will suffer greatly!

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