Narcissistic dad said that he is leaving and said his goodbye to the kids on Friday.  Then he said he was in Ohio today and then asked for a visit with the kids.  I want to ask people for help but he has my hands twisted and yet he won’t ever stop.  I do not think as he does not think he is doing anything wrong.  He says he calls me a c— because I act like one.  I have been raising my 2 children by myself now for 5 months and my baby 7 months.  How can I ask for help without him doing or saying anything, saying I’m threatening him.  He does not help and when I ask for child support he says I am threatening.  I do not want to have a breakdown and that is what he wants.