My mother is a borderline narcissist. She also has a blood borne disease that she’s been preaching for 10 years will kill her soon. She has recently tried to re enter my life through my aunt. I don’t want a relationship with this woman because I know dipping my toe back in will give her power to hurt me again and also my daughter… I don’t want to forget her cruelties… As far as forgiving goes, I have but have accepted that she can move on with her life and I, with mine. Even if it means the rest of my family shuns me for refusing to go to her I’m fine. Do you think I’m making the right decision?