I can’t leave

I can’t leave

I see the way my parents and granddad treat people and I don’t want to be like that.  I’ve had to go along with their ideas but I know it’s wrong.  I can’t leave. I’m still a student.  They treat people, nice people, like dirt and expect me to go along with it.  I hate them all.  People don’t stay long.  When I get to like someone and hope they’ll be around for a while something happens and they leave.  What do I do?

3 thoughts on “I can’t leave

  1. Sounds like a cycle of behaviour that’s pasted down but not affected you. That’s one positive from your situation. It’s sounds tough. Narcissists don’t play nice and yes they do treat nice people awfully. How do they treat you? Why can’t you leave?

  2. Awesome That You Recognize What’s Going On With The Adults In Your Life And That You Want No Part Of That Behavior. You Mention You’re A Student—Is There Somebody At School You Can Speak To About Your Home Situation? (Teacher, Principal, Therapist?) You Want Help Getting Out, Ask For It, Find It And Never Look Back. You’re Going To Need A Support System, School Is One Place To Find Good People. Are The Good People In Your Life Out Of Your Parents Lives? Would They Be Willing To Meet With You In Public, Say For Coffee
    Or Lunch, Or Even Come In To Speak With You And Your Teacher/Therapist/Principal To Describe What They Have Had To Endure? Start Volunteering, Join A Club Anything To Meet New People, Make Connections, And Stay Out Of That House! Good Luck!

  3. Bide your time and do what you have to do in the house to “fit in” – you are not always going to be financially dependent upon these people. Congratulations for realizing right from wrong so early on and refusing to allow the pattern to continue in your own life – the only life over which you have any control.

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