He’s moved on quickly with another woman

He’s moved on quickly with another woman

Your videos really helped me…. I have been in this type of relationship 3 years.  Started yes too good to be true…  Full on…

Finally ended 6 months ago though due to selling our property I’m still in some sort of contact.  Due to the abuse including violence which has left me injured 4 bulging discs in my neck, I have a restraining order on him.  The sad part is that I may never be able to ride my horses again so yes he’s taken that away from me too… But recovering emotionally including the confusion of why this happened when I put my heart & soul into the relationship is the hardest part I’m struggling with.  I try to understand why but can’t.  The constant number of X GF floating around in the background etc., it was a nightmare.  I actually caught him cheating the first week we moved into the property we bought together.  This is while he was telling everyone I was the love of his life.  He cried & begged me to give him a second chance and as I was stuck here just having bought this home I had little choice. Plus when I asked about his X GF he would accuse me of being controlling & it’s his friends…  Yes he had slept with all of them only short term affairs…  That’s not a friend.  He collects them on Facebook like a collectable item.  If I saw any texts they would have a sexual innuendo to them so not really friends.  Usually he would have his phone glued to his side.  I am left both physically, emotionally, financially broken and feel that I’ve been wounded soul deep.  The pain and anxiety is the hardest.  I just sit and try my best to understand why but I will have to accept that I will never understand.  He’s moved on quickly with another woman but as I’m still stuck on the property he’s making every step of selling here as difficult as possible like I’m the one with someone else.  He’s even told others I’m the one in a new relationship when it’s him…  It’s absolute madness.

4 thoughts on “He’s moved on quickly with another woman

  1. I know the feeling hun. I have an unhealed dislocated jaw from mine, we had 11 years together and 2 little girls. Mine moved in with his whole within a week of me throwing him out. It would’ve been sooner but she moved and he didn’t know kw where yet. No contact helps soooo much! You have more time apart then me though, I’m just over 3 months in. It hurts so bad I know. I got a text yesterday that he “accidently” sent to me saying I love you too baby!! They like to do whatever they can to get at you. Rise above, I know….easier said then done…

  2. Very familiar. I was with him for almost a decade and 4 kids. He cheated on me with my best friend. Promised it would never happen again but did a few weeks later. Then he tells me he needs both of us, for his health (that part may have actually been true, being a narc and all).
    I had enough at that point and didn’t find out about his narcness until a few weeks later. He moved in with her immediately, while he was still trying to mend things with me, getting angry that I was moving on.

  3. Wow. I cannot believe the similarities to my own situation. Everything except the physical violence thankfully. But timeline and every single other detail is exactly the same. Crazy. Hoping you find some peace in knowing others are going thru the EXACT same thing

  4. I was with mine for a year and half..except did I know the last half he was with someone else to. I’m 9 months preg with his baby and he don’t care now as we have a no contact from all the physical abuse. I struggle alot still to this day and it’s been almost 4 months since I walked away and almost 3 weeks of not talking to him. I still feel lost I hope this feeling goes away Doon especially before my din is born and I have to do this alone.

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