I need some advice. I am concerned I left one narcissist for another. He’s not high energy or very motivated in life but he is quite oblivious to many things. I keep waking up lately, quite randomly, feeling sick with a horrible headache and nausea and have missed some work as a result and the last time I woke up like this, I texted him at work. He showed zero concern and talked about something else like I’d said nothing at all. Also he wouldn’t come say hi when he got home from work after me nor come give me a kiss or hug or ask me how my day was. He tells me about hot girls he interacts with at work and I don’t know why he would do that. He also lies a lot and for no reason. I call him on all these bad behaviours, and more, and he does make changes but then occasionally he acts like someone totally different than who I thought he was – really cold and cruel. It is very brief when it happens but scares me. Have I gone from the frying pan into the fire or could he just be inexperienced in relationships? He’s not dated much and he’s youngish at 25 years old. Thank you in advance for any ideas or advice.