Everyone I loved was no longer in touch

Everyone I loved was no longer in touch

I love your page.  I have been through a similar experience and was really messed up.  I had to go for counselling and pick myself up to go on.  I cried every minute of my life and felt so discarded.  My psychologist told me about my partner displaying classic symptoms of NPD but I chose to go back.  It ended up with my partner dumping me using a picture.  I was so isolated and everyone I loved was no longer in touch with me.  I am still healing and I can’t believe my partner made it seem like all my fault.  The regular break ups, the threats to leave me – I had become so needy and clingy.  I forgave everything and even today, I can only recall good thing.  I force myself to remember how I was treated.  From swears, comparison to ex, insulting , demeaning, to being physically abusive.  Yet I forgave and I could not understand that I was dumped like that.  Long story short, I am trying to heal myself of my 3.9 months of relationship and I just activated my Facebook account.  I read your posts and people who are going through similar experiences and it helps me connect with them.  People often explain what NPD is but there aren’t a lot of coping mechanism to get over this situation.  This void in our lives need to be filled so we don’t go back to them.  We need other coping tools such as connecting with other victims, trying to occupy our mind, doing anything and everything to ensure we don’t think about them.

As easy as it seems – it’s not.  I am trying,  I am trying to cope and one day I will get over this…in the meantime , every time I think about my partner – I know that that person isn’t worth my time.  Thanks for the page and the add.

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  1. I really feel for you as I totally understand what you are going through and I agree that we need to have a good coping strategy. I constantly think of my ex and then keep reminding myself of how badly I was treated ..I am in a rut and spend most of my time sleeping to try and escape the reality of my life without him . I wish you well and hope you find the inner strength and healing you need to get through your days without your ex . It is a blessing to know that other people care and to be able to be in touch with others who have suffered the same fate . With much love to you ..x

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