Are my children going to be prone to this behaviour?
I just moved across the country to have my children close to their dad and my boyfriend. I am in the process of finding a job but I am called lazy and other horrific names like (c**t, b***h, stupid). He wants me to help him work all day. Pay is commission based and if he gets leads takes a while to get paid. I just found out I am pregnant with baby and he is sending my mom Facebook posts telling her I lost my mind and I am lazy and messy and have something really wrong with my head. Then he gets nice and kisses me on the head and tries and acts all nice. My children and I do not deserve this. I have been reading and it appears to me that he may have narcissistic behaviour. Are my children going to be prone to having this type of behaviour and what if any help can he get that he will actually listen to and maybe change before he loses the kids permanently?
3 thoughts on “Are my children going to be prone to this behaviour?”
You shouldn’t have to tell an adult how to behave!! Narcissists do not change because they can’t look within and own up to the bad things that they have done, they will deny everything till their blue in the face, your kids will learn how to condone this behaviour and may even start to call you names and treat you bad because they see and hear him doing they things and you still love him so in the eyes of your children emotional abuse is love this is how the brain washing starts .
I’m a bit confused here – you don’t seem to be tied to this area as you’ve yet to find a job, and you just moved there? MOVE BACK. Voluntarily walking into this abusive situation, regardless of whether or not you’re pregnant, is insanity. Please consider counseling to get to the bottom of why you’re even involved with a mentally unstable person. He is incapable of changing in a healthy way, and your children are being abused by even witnessing your own abuse.
Move back to be near your family before your baby is born otherwise you’ll have to go through the family court for a relocation order.
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