He took six years of my life
Please could you post anonymously: 6 years of abuse, lies and lack of empathy followed by 6 months of torture whilst he messed around reeling me in until I discovered the other woman and cut all ties permanently. Only now I’m with his ex best friend and now I know just how unfaithful and what a liar he was. I can’t or won’t confront it. I’ll never speak to it again. How do you come to terms with being so humiliated abused and lied to…..and do you ever, or should you forgive? He took 6 years of my life.
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You do forgive, years later when your life is better and you have grieved the pain. But; you never ever speak to them again. One day you’ll forgive because you finally realise that slowly but surely they ruin their own lives, so much so that they die alone. They push everyone away…….its quite pitiful really and very very sad. My ex destroyed our family with lies and deception, and sure enough, he’ll destroy the relationship after that and the one after that, and the ten after that.
I had 15 years of it. The lies, the deceit, moving and stealing our money. He even robbed the savings of our daughter ! The worst was after convincing me to give him another chance, he carried on his affair for three years with the woman half his age, they were setting up their lives together abd he promoted her at work. Then bang, the physical and emotional abuse starts again. I felt horrified, conned and violated. They had both been having sex with other people whilst he was conning me. I had to get std tested. In every way this piece of skin tried to destroy me. It’s tempting to destroy him. But I have the rest of my life and that’s worth so much more. As soon as you look back and hate he has won. Hold your head high and strive forward with every breath in your body. You are worth more !
I am still recovering, but i dont haye him. I feel bad for him.
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