Years ago I started my journey to find out who I am and what I wanted out of my life.  All my life I was told, by mom, who I was ‘supposed’ to be.  So I was.  Now that I have rid those negative hurtful people out of my life, I have found that my positive outlook has changed me from who I was to who I was always meant to be.  Last night my son, whom hasn’t been around me since I’ve changed, called and is struggling in his life.  He is so very negative and I was able to tell him how to turn all this negativity around to the positive.  He had gotten stuck in the rut of life that I was once stuck in.  After we hung up, his negativity had over come me and my anxiety was through the roof.  As I sat to try and figure out what in the world was happening, I realized that I really don’t have negativity in my life and this is why.  Wow!  I figured it out and stopped the process of what was happening.  I’m still a work in progress but I have come so very far at fixing the years of abuse that I endured.  Big day!  About an hour later he sent me a text thanking me for turning his negative attitude around and helping him see that there were options and a way out.  See, all my hard work was for a reason.  One of your posts made me want to share this with you.  If I can help just one person find their way our of the pain, then all my pain was worth it.